Being a mentor for Learning Buddies Network is an extremely valuable experience. It teaches you so many skills and is very rewarding. If you are a new mentor, you may be excited to teach, but you may also feel nervous. However, just know that this is not only a learning experience for your buddy, but it is also a learning process for you! Here are 5 tips to help you be the best mentor to your buddy:

1. Communicate

Lots of people fear asking questions, as they may feel too anxious, embarrassed, or ashamed. Although these feelings are valid, do not let these emotions prevent you from speaking up. Asking questions is a key way to ensure that your buddy gets good quality education. Your teacher liaisons, PCs (program coordinators), and ECs (executive coordinators) are there to answer any questions or concerns that you may have.

2. Be Prepared

One good tip is to have all of your material ready before the session starts. Come to the session with your tabs (worksheets, books, etc) ready so you will not scramble to find materials. Plus, it gives you the time to ask questions before the buddies come in. It is always better to have more tabs open in case your buddy flies through the material. If your buddy does not complete everything prepared, that’s okay. You can work on them in the next session!

3. Be Open

Being flexible and open to change is essential to being a good mentor. Not every session will go exactly as you planned. Keep in mind that your buddy may come late or show up last minute, have technical difficulties, may not be feeling too well, and more. Learn how to handle those challenging moments. It is alright if you do not have a very “productive” session and need to take more time to chat or take breaks. Be open to the feedback you receive and do not beat yourself up over it. We are all learning so it is okay if you do not know how to efficiently teach a concept.

4. Do Not Take on More Than You Can Handle

Your buddy will rely on you and grow to enjoy your company. It is unfair if you are consistently absent, as showing up can mean so much to your buddy as you build a connection with them. If you know you have other commitments, then it is okay to step away and mentor when you have more time. It can negatively impact your buddy if they notice that you are not mentally present or if you seem as though you are in a rush. There are many opportunities within the organization, so you could always contact someone about more flexible opportunities that may be available to you.

5. Check Your Intentions

Some people think that becoming a mentor is an easy way to complete volunteer hours. While it is true that you will gain volunteer hours, do not make that the main goal or reason why you take on a buddy. Being a mentor is an opportunity to gain so many skills alongside the hours you will accumulate. Your intentions matter a lot and if your intentions are not for the right reason, neither you nor your buddy will have a good term.

I hope that the tips provided are helpful and that you feel more equipped to be a mentor. Know that your role as a mentor is necessary to help a child flourish and your contributions go a long way. Good luck!